tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2069974921532976436.post3378865294322763805..comments2023-04-04T00:12:50.135+10:00Comments on Riding The Broom: What is my fear? What am I afraid of?Taniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09171049443280337266noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2069974921532976436.post-51388755759327668552008-09-25T23:44:00.000+10:002008-09-25T23:44:00.000+10:00I don't think you should have to worry about thing...I don't think you should have to worry about things with you ex husband. Both girls are old enough to know that R. abandoned them. For the most part, Richard has not had hardly any contact with the girls since '00. B and A know this. I think for the most part, if he tired anything in court, the system would tell him to "f**k off!!"<BR/><BR/>Like you have wrote, you have been the mother and "father" for the past 8 years. He is happy with "fugly", who happens to hate the girls. So, I wouldn't worry to much. <BR/><BR/>Think happy trees ;)<BR/><BR/>Mr. NYAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2069974921532976436.post-52348160575374888952008-09-24T09:24:00.000+10:002008-09-24T09:24:00.000+10:00basically you dont know what the phone call betwee...basically you dont know what the phone call between ex and V was about, so dont do your head in trying to surmise- for all we know, ex may have rung him to tell him to f*** off and stop harrassing him.<BR/><BR/>V is not going to let loose easily Tania and i think we all know that- when someone brings fire to a fight you can only fight it with fire- one more word from him and you MUST AVO the asshole.<BR/><BR/>I dont know anything about your past relationship with your ex and his relationship with his daughters, so i cant comment. Only you know if everything in that part of your life is as fair and balanced as it should be, and if it is then you have nothing to fear nor stress about- if its not then maybe this will give you the opportunity to address that.<BR/><BR/>Overall- view yourself as a huge , strong fortress in the middle of the ocean, in the middle of the worst storm in recorded history.<BR/><BR/>The waves crash, the thunder, lightening and hail rain down, but the tower stands strong- nothing can even dent it.<BR/><BR/>make yourself this tower-absolutly rooted to the spot- Ex is but a bit of hail and V is a bit of lightening.<BR/><BR/>They cant hurt you, you are too strong.<BR/><BR/>All V has at the moment is mind games and a video- he is sad, sad, little boy.<BR/><BR/>View him as such, dont give him anymore power than this.<BR/><BR/>xxxxxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15047696858755347818noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2069974921532976436.post-21633234489880344682008-09-24T09:13:00.000+10:002008-09-24T09:13:00.000+10:00Ditto to Anchell, you are alllowing to be played.....Ditto to Anchell, you are alllowing to be played.....some men get their power from putting women in a position of fear, but you have to LET them do that to yo are your reactions, even though very warranted ( you are a caring mother with real fears for your kids ) you are also working yourself into a frenzy ( although you know what these guys are capable of and we do not )....no one will take your children away from you..you have been caring and raising them and they know the truth about you no matter what bullshit is stirred up by others..don't let this intimidate you...<BR/>As usual the Goddess always chooses to test us when we feel that we have become strong.You have grown, yes you have, and know the Goddes is saying..."show me how much!".....Dont let this drive you back...let it be an opportunity for you to find a way round this....w.w.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2069974921532976436.post-5452670400180298992008-09-24T08:25:00.000+10:002008-09-24T08:25:00.000+10:00i totally agree with Shell, you have taken his com...i totally agree with Shell, you have taken his comtrol away from him so this is the only way he knows to try and get it back...keep strong we're all here for you lolJewellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12494510942636798609noreply@blogger.com